Why Be Beyond Grateful!

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Dec 1

Written By Empowering Women Winners

4 Action Steps to Show Gratitude

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I’ve needed His grace more than I care to admit, discuss, or even think.

God’s grace is that unmerited favor that He shows to us when we do not deserve it.

When I deserved His punishment, it was through grace that He whispered to me:

“I’m not a victim, I’m a victor.”

Those were some of the most liberating words that I had ever received into my spirit.

Grace under pressure and God’s grace is sufficient for me are two sentiments for which I can identify.

We see grace in the form of God giving us a free pass, the right to the tree of life, salvation, something wonderful for free. We may have gotten a break today. Meaning, instead of receiving punishment, we received a free pass. We didn’t get caught.

Three amazing things about Grace and Works

We don’t have to work for grace. Grace given has nothing to do with our efforts, contrition, or trying to do right because we feel remorse for our actions.
We cannot do enough good things to earn us grace. Grace given has nothing to do with our efforts to be "good enough."
It's not about works! We can not do enough to earn God’s grace.

For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith - and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God. Not by works, so that no one can boast. - Ephesians 2:8-9 NIV

How amazing is that? Grace is simply given. We CANNOT say that any actions we’ve taken has earned us the grace of God. As a matter of fact, it’s more accurate to say that we did wrong and God extended to us His grace.

He still blessed us.

He gave us another chance.

We didn’t get the punishment we know we deserved.

Honestly, we may not say it, but we recognize that our actions were wrong in any given situation or at a certain time in life. And we recognize that God basically ignored that and gave us something good instead.

For while we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. For one will hardly die for a righteous man; -though perhaps for the good man someone would dare even to die- but God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. -Romans 5:6-8 ESV

We know the choices we made are deserving of strict punishment.

But God shows his favor on us, undeserved, and unearned.

We were given freedom not to get the punishment that the legal system or the rules on our jobs would rightly give to us.

This same scripture is about us being saved from the wrath of God. Listen we couldn’t get it right, couldn’t keep it right. Jesus came to be that mediator. To be the middle man between God and us. Jesus took the sin of our lives upon himself. THAT’S GRACE.

GRACE In Action

As we prepare to close out the year, I’d like to focus on the word grace. Let’s talk about Grace, Grateful, Gratitude, and Gracious. These words are similar starting from grace, yet different in implementation.

Grace is shown to us, yet undeserved.
Grace is courteous goodwill or saying a prayer of thanks before we eat our food. It’s also simple elegance of movement.
Action Step: Take the time to thank God for His undeserved grace and mercy shown to you.

We’re grateful for what was done for us.
Being grateful is showing warm or deep appreciation for the kindness shown. It’s being thankful that the accident didn’t hurt us.
Action Step: In what ways can you express gratefulness for something that was done for you?

Gratitude - Inspired Eagle Yvette Ward.png — **We show our gratitude by taking action for others.**

Gratitude is expressed when we show thankfulness through our actions. Writing a letter to someone to say thanks is an inexpensive way of showing gratitude.
The small business, BARE Love, chooses to recognize people who are a rare example.
This boost to individuals shows them that they are making a recognizable impact through their business and by their acts of service.
**Action Step:** Who can you bless with an expression of gratitude?

We choose to be gracious in how we respond and treat others.
Being pleasant, kind, or courteous is being gracious. To be gracious is also showing good taste or style and having class about oneself. Most often, women show classiness through appearance, then action.
Crown Me Wig Collection is one such business that elevates individuals through self-care.
When individuals care for themselves, their gracious attitudes tend to flow over to others.
Action Step: Who could benefit from your gracious acts of kindness and service?

As we close out the year, we see different ways we can show that we are grateful. We can also extend a gracious attitude toward those who are struggling with loss of loved ones, financial devastation, or struggling with seclusion due to the current pandemic.